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IMDB rating: 6.50 Plot: Samantha Caine, suburban homemaker, is the ideal mom to her 8 year old daughter Caitlin. She lives in Honesdale, PA, has a job teaching school and makes the best Rice Krispie treats in town. But when she receives a bump on her head, she begins to remember small parts of her previous life as a lethal, top-secret agent. Her old chums in the Chapter are now out to kill her so she enlists the help of a cheap detective named Mitch. As Samantha remembers more and more of her previous life, she becomes deadlier and more resourceful. Both Mitch and Charly proceed to do the killing thing, the bleeding thing and the shooting thing. |
Actors: Jackson Samuel L.,Bierko Craig,Tom Amandes,Cox Brian,Malahide Patrick,Morse David,McKenna Joseph,Warry-Smith Dan,Linn Rex,North Alan,Hodge Edwin,MacDonald Bill,Moore Frank,Spradlin G.D.,McPherson Graham,Action,Thriller,Drama,
Am I reading too much into this…I'm so confused by all the mixed messages (long)?
Our situation is long and complicated.. He was coming out of a relationship with his ex, whome he has a child with , when we confessed having feelings for each other. We met at work and in total we have been friends for about 4 years. Everything was going well, I felt amazing because of him, but shortly after I was promoted and became his boss, so we had to just be friends or we would have lost.
During this time period, he kind of went back to his ex. She ended up pregnant again. I was devastated. The day I told him I knew…we told each other we loved each other for the first time. But I was so hurt, I just wanted to get away and I transferred to a different branch of our company and tried to avoid him in anyway I could. We ran into each other at a party and he wanted me to go home with him, but I refused and left early. (we’ve never had sex by the way…the most we’d ever done at this point was kiss).
For the next few months it seemed like he just wanted to get me in bed…and I finally just got to a point where I was like I can’t talk to you anymore. You are hurting me. That’s all you ever want to talk about nowadays. You have a baby on the way and you haven’t even given it a second thought how that affects me. I told him I felt disrespected and I didn’t understand when it became about sex between he and I because it had never been that way before. He apologized and said it was never just a physical thing between us.
After that conversation, I didn’t talk to him for a few months. Then he started calling me again. I let him back in. Things started out well, but then he started getting all flakey. Twice he didn’t show up for plans to come hang with me that he initiated (not me). So I told him to leave me alone because I deserve to be treated better. He told me I was over reacting and that he had fallen asleep. I didn’t know whether to believe him or not, I just new I was hurt. I went out of town and when I came back I told myself I was going to be done with him. So when I got back I didn’t contact him and when he tried to get in touch with me I would ignore his calls and messages. Slowly I started responding again, but I would just be real brief and platonic about things. I really wanted to be with him, but I didn’t want to be hurt anymore.
Then his ex had her baby and I guess they got back together for briefly. Then they broke up again and he told her it was over for good. I had stopped talking to him altogether at this point. He kept asking our mutual friends why I wouldn’t answer his calls and messages and why I was avoiding him. He was blowing up my cell phone and work numbers everyday…then we saw each other at this work meeting and he gave me this big warm smile and it melted me.
Later that day he sent me a message asking me why I wouldn’t talk to him anymore and I told him that he had hurt me. He apologized for what he had done and told me he loved me too much to hurt me. I told him how he flakes out on our plans, and how I never know what’s going on with him and he keeps running back to his ex. He addressed all of my concerns, but that same weekend he did’t show up when he said he was going to. He claims he fell asleep on the side of the road. He text me first thing the next morning and apologized and said he wanted to come give me a hug before church. I did see him that day and he seemed so happy to see me a gave me a big hug.
So in the following week I heard from him all the time. Then I went out of town and he sent me a message every night wishing me sweet dreams. When I came back he called and we talked on the phone for about 3 hours. But then he started pulling away and getting kind of distant. When I would ask what’s wrong he would say nothing. I did know he has been having some issues at work, but what does that have to do with how he interacts with me?
So then I told him that I wanted us to build a relationship together. And he told me that he wants the same thing too if we can make it work, but warned me that there was going to be drama with his baby’s mother. I asked him if he needed more time to sort that out and he said probably.
So..I tried to back away. And he started sending me messages everyday asking me how my day was going and stuff like that. So then I had asked him to go see this movie with me, he said he had to check his money, but he never got back to me about it. I was really upset, so I asked him why he didn’t just tell me he didn’t want to go. He said that wasn’t the case. So again I don’t know what to believe.
Last weekend he came over and we hung out and we were having a great conversation. And he revealed some personal stuff to me about his family, his finances, his children, work, etc. We started kissing and making out…and we ended up half naked. When he left he kissed me goodnight and the next morning he text me and wished me a good morning. The following day i told him i might stop by and vi
This has been going on for far too long. You need to give him and ultimatum. You two finally be together or else you cut off all contact once and for all. If he doesn’t commit now, he’s never going too. You don’t deserve to have a guy jerk you around like this. If he is unwilling to finally commit to you, then it’s time for you to give up and get over him. Eliminate all contact, no matter how hard it is, just do it. You won’t be able to get over him until you cut off all contact.
Mimi149 | Nov 26, 2009
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